Whoever is trying to bring you down, is already below you.
Month: March 2021
Retro Tuesday – Anger is Just Sad’s Bodyguard 3-30-2021

BY ATHLING2001
Anger is just sad’s bodyguard.
When I first read the quote above, I had no clue what it meant. I couldn’t form the words into any semblance of understanding. Then it hit me and I understood with every fiber of my being. Like a bodyguard protecting a client, we hide our sadness behind anger. Anger is our shield to protect us from exposing our emotions to the world.
So much of the world lives on the edge between sadness and happiness. The cars and houses and huge TV’s don’t bring the happiness expected. Instead, sadness settles deep inside, a loss we might not even understand. Because we won’t – or aren’t able – to admit the sadness at the center of our supposed ‘search for happiness,’ we pretend the sadness isn’t there. We get angry at the people, events, politicians, (add your own favorites) we ‘think’ are keeping us from the happiness we deserve.
The truth is, we aren’t entitled to ‘happiness’ just because we exist. Every one of us is responsible for tearing down our own shield of anger and confronting the reality of life. Is all the anger in the world just hiding sadness over lives failing to fulfilled our own expected potential?
I lash out when I’m sad, trying to avoid some issue in my life. I don’t like feeling out-of-control. The funny thing is, I know I’m hiding but I can’t help myself. It’s easier to blame the world than to admit to the sadness settled inside me. It takes me a few hours, or days, to talk myself around to admitting the sadness hiding behind my armor.
If I am sad over a bill, with no clue where to find the money to pay, I get angry. If only I had a better paying job; didn’t have to support my (adult) kids; if my mortgage company hadn’t screwed over some perceived slight. You get the picture.
We all struggle with these feeling ever day. It’s the ostrich head in the sand syndrome. If I don’t acknowledge the problem, it just might go away. I might win the lottery (if I played) or I might find a fortune in my attic (fat chance). Or I might just wind my way around to acknowledging my anger and deal with the problem head-on. It doesn’t matter if I come up with an acceptable solution – such as where to get the money – I’ve confronted the issue. That alone given me the peace needed to calmly and logically deal with the problem.
What if we could strip away the anger of the world, banish every shred guarding the sadness of an entire planet? What would be left for every man, woman and child? Sadness. And then what if we acknowledged the sadness, every one of us on the entire planet. What if nobody felt out-of-control?
What would our planet look like then?
Quote For The Day 3-30-2021
Some people are holding grudges against you for things they did to you.
Quote For The Day 3-29-2021
If it doesn’t open, it’s not your door.
JSW 3-29-2021
The JSW Challenge is open to anybody who wishes to participate. Using the writing prompt, write a flash fiction no longer than 500 words and post to your page. The Challenge starts on Monday and runs through Sunday each week. Please remember to link your story back to this post so everyone can read your entry.

“Look at that idiot! Out in the wind like that.”
“He is a seagull.”
“Well, so are you, but are you out there in the wind like that?”
“Seagulls like wind.”
“Well then he should be flying, not sitting there like a lump on sand. Do you see any other seagulls out there? Huh? Huh?”
“No, but…”
“But nothing. He’s a disgrace to seagullkind.”
“Just because he enjoys a little wind?”
“A little wind? A little! It’s almost a hurricane out there.”
“Don’t exaggerate.”
“I’m not, much, but you know what I mean.”
“I bet any minute he is going to take off and do some daring stunt, some spectacular flying, some sheer magic in the air.”
“Humph.”
But he didn’t. The seagull just sat there in the wind, moving a few steps now and then to keep upright.
“See, told you. Nothing. A disgrace.”
“He’s just different, Ma.”
“Different my tailfeathers. He’s a disgrace!”
“Come on, fly!”
“Humph.” Ma waddled away, back to the safety of the inlet.
“Come on, fly!”
But Jonathan stayed on the sand. Waiting. Enjoying the wind in his feathers.
He really wasn’t like any other seagull.
JSW 3-29-2021
The JSW Challenge is open to anybody who wishes to participate. Using the writing prompt, write a flash fiction no longer than 500 words and post to your page. The Challenge starts on Monday and runs through Sunday each week. Please remember to link your story back to this post so everyone can read your entry.

Quote For The Day 3-28-2021
When it hurts, observe. Life is trying to teach you something.
Quote For The Day 3-27-2021
The first thing you should know about me is that I’m not you.
A lot more will make sense after that.
Friday Fictioneers 3-26-2021


“Do you really think it is?” she asked in an awed whisper.
“Maybe.”
“Where is the wardrobe?”
“You can’t see it from here,” I told her. “It’s to the left of the lamppost.”
Eyes wide, curls dusted with snow, she started into the empty space.
“Do you think we can find it?”
“The wardrobe?”
A firm nod.
“One day,” I said.
She nodded again as I took her hand.
“One day,” she agreed. “I am going to find it.”
I glanced right, at the faun peeking around the tree.
“You will,” I said. “I know it.”
Quote For The Day 3-26-2021
You can’t change someone who doesn’t see an issue in their actions.
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