Be stronger than your excuses.
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What does it mean to be strong?
What does it mean to be strong? There are many kinds of strength. Physical strength. Mental strength. Psychological strength. Strength in math or writing or baseball. We all know what strength means, or do we?
The Dictionary defines strength as:
1: the quality or state of being strong: capacity for exertion or endurance
2: power to resist force: solidity, toughness
3: power of resisting attack:
4: legal, logical, or moral force;
5: strong attribute or inherent asset
6: degree of potency of effect or of concentration (chili peppers in varying strengths) intensity of light, color, sound, or odor; vigor of expression; force as measured in numbers: effective numbers of anybody or organization (an army at full strength).
7: one regarded as embodying or affording force or firmness
8: maintenance of or a rising tendency in a price level: firmness of prices (the strength of the dollar).
9: basis—used in the phrase on the strength of (from strength to strength); vigorously forward: from one high point to the next.
Strength is inundated into our very being. We are expected to be strong, men and women both. Weakness is not tolerated in this world of succeed or fail.
The strength of our leaders, whether political, clerical, movie stars or sports heroes, has been transformed over the years. Men and women in positions of strength, whether mental or physical, are falling to weaknesses like wood into a chipper. Most people can name at least ten, probably twenty or more, leaders who have fallen from grace. Strength has come to mean invulnerability to many of those in positions of strength.
They are no more immune to attack and destruction than anybody else in this world. They are just better at pretending. There is no strength without weakness. Weakness is the ability to bend but not break. We all need to be strong and weak in equal measure. Those in power who feel that they cannot be torn down are broken because they refuse to bend.
Light cannot be strong without comparison with dimness. A chili pepper can’t be hot without the comparison of mild. An army can’t be strong if they are never willing to bend and fight another day. Phalanxes which fight to the death look impressive, but when the battleground is layered with bodies, what then? Was their strength well used?
One can’t be strong without having been weak. Otherwise, how would know you were strong? Currency can’t be strong without also being weak, even if we’d prefer it not weaken. One cannot go from strength to strength without first having been weak.
I hope that what we are seeing is a revolution against those who hold all the strength, those men and woman who wield strength to benefit them, not those who watch them or elected them or pay their salaries. Those people who think the rules and laws, not of nations, but of humanity, don’t apply to them.
In order for all of humanity to be strong, we must all be strong and weak. There is no strength in millions of people starving or having no safe place to live, no safe water or food, the security of knowing they are safe from the strength of those who would destroy them. Millions of tribesman murdered because they belong to the ‘wrong’ tribe. Strength?
Children bought and sold. Strength?
A finger on the Red Button? Strength?
Torturing an animal? Strength?
No to all the above, but most people will think strength.
This world will not survive on strength alone, no matter what definition you give to the word. So when you think about strength, remember that weakness can be as powerful as strength. Make sure you learn to be weak in order to be strong.
“You didn’t get the quest you wanted, you got the one you could do.”
― Lev Grossman,
“I am fated to journey hand in hand with my strange heroes and to survey the surging immensity of life, to survey it through the laughter that all can see and through the tears unseen and unknown by anyone.”
― Nikolai Gogol
“In every moment of choice, you create a new destiny.”
― Kevin Michel,
“The world breaks everyone, and afterward, many are strong at the broken places.”
― Ernest Hemingway
“It takes strength and courage to admit the truth.”
“It’s not what you lift, it’s where you carry it.”
― David Foster Wallace
“Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go. However, your peace is measured by how long you don’t look back.”